How Do I File for Custody or Divorce in Oregon?
Going through a divorce or custody dispute is emotionally and legally complex. Oregon's family law system provides processes for dissolving marriages, establishing custody, and determining parenting time. This guide walks you through the basics of filing for divorce and custody in Oregon.
Filing for Divorce in Oregon
Oregon offers two types of divorce (called "dissolution of marriage") under ORS 107.025:
1. Contested Divorce
Used when spouses can't agree on major issues (property division, custody, support). Requires court hearings and possibly a trial.
2. Uncontested (Co-Petitioner) Divorce
Used when both spouses agree on all terms. Faster, cheaper, and doesn't require a trial. You can file jointly as "co-petitioners."
Residency Requirement
To file for divorce in Oregon, you or your spouse must have lived in Oregon for at least 6 months before filing.
Steps to File for Divorce
Gather Required Information
Social Security numbers, marriage certificate, income/asset information, debt records, and children's information (if applicable).
Complete the Petition
File a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage with your county circuit court. Oregon courts provide free forms at oregonlawhelp.org.
Pay Filing Fees
Typically $280-$350 depending on county. Fee waivers available for low-income filers.
Serve Your Spouse
Your spouse must be officially "served" with divorce papers by a process server or sheriff. If uncontested, they can sign an Acceptance of Service form instead.
Waiting Period
Oregon requires a 90-day waiting period from the date of service before the divorce can be finalized.
Attend Hearings or Finalize
Contested: Attend mediation and/or trial. Uncontested: Submit a General Judgment of Dissolution once 90 days have passed. No hearing required if uncontested.
Child Custody in Oregon
Oregon law uses the term "custody" to refer to legal decision-making authority and "parenting time" for physical time with the child. Custody can be addressed during divorce or as a standalone case if parents were never married.
Types of Custody
- Sole custody: One parent has legal authority to make major decisions (education, healthcare, religion).
- Joint custody: Both parents share legal decision-making. Oregon courts favor joint custody when parents can cooperate.
Parenting Time (Physical Custody)
Parenting time schedules determine where the child lives and when. Options include:
- Primary custody with visitation: Child lives primarily with one parent; other parent has scheduled parenting time (weekends, holidays, summer).
- Shared parenting time: Child splits time more evenly between both parents (50/50 or 60/40 splits).
Best Interests of the Child Standard
Under ORS 107.137, Oregon courts decide custody based on the child's best interests. Factors include:
- Emotional ties between child and each parent
- Each parent's interest in and attitude toward the child
- Each parent's ability to provide a stable home
- Child's preference (if old enough and mature enough)
- History of domestic violence, abuse, or substance abuse
- Each parent's willingness to facilitate the child's relationship with the other parent
Oregon does NOT favor mothers over fathers. Both parents start on equal footing.
Steps to File for Custody
File a Petition
If you're married and divorcing, custody is part of the divorce case. If unmarried, file a Petition to Establish Custody in your county circuit court.
Serve the Other Parent
The other parent must be officially served with the petition and has 30 days to respond.
Attend Mediation
Oregon requires mediation for custody disputes. A neutral mediator helps parents reach agreement. Many counties provide free or low-cost mediation.
Hearing or Trial
If mediation fails, the case goes to a hearing or trial where a judge decides custody and parenting time.
Court Order
Once decided, the court issues a custody and parenting time order that both parents must follow.
Child Support
Oregon uses a formula to calculate child support based on both parents' incomes and the parenting time arrangement. Under ORS 25.275, the parent with less parenting time typically pays support to the parent with more time.
How Support is Calculated:
- Income: Gross income from all sources (wages, self-employment, bonuses, benefits).
- Parenting time: The more time you have with the child, the less support you pay (or more you receive).
- Guideline formula: Oregon provides a child support calculator at justice.oregon.gov/guidelines.
Enforcement: Child support orders are enforced through wage garnishment. Failure to pay can result in license suspension, tax refund interception, or even jail time.
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Start Your Legal AssessmentModifying Custody or Support Orders
If circumstances change significantly, you can request a modification under ORS 107.135. Examples of substantial change:
- Significant income change (job loss, major raise)
- Relocation of a parent
- Changes in the child's needs
- Evidence of abuse, neglect, or substance abuse
File a Motion to Modify with the court that issued the original order. You'll need to prove the change is substantial and that modification serves the child's best interests.
Mediation: The Preferred Path
Oregon strongly encourages mediation for family law disputes. Benefits include:
- Faster: Mediation takes weeks, not months or years.
- Cheaper: Avoids costly attorney fees and court battles.
- More control: You and your spouse decide the outcome, not a judge.
- Less adversarial: Better for maintaining a cooperative co-parenting relationship.
Many Oregon counties offer free or sliding-scale mediation services. Ask the court clerk about availability.
Where to Get Help
- Oregon Judicial Department: Free family law forms and instructions at courts.oregon.gov.
- Oregon Law Help: Comprehensive family law self-help resources at oregonlawhelp.org.
- Legal Aid Services of Oregon: Free legal assistance for low-income individuals in family law cases.
- Family Law Facilitators: Many Oregon counties have court staff who can help you fill out forms (not legal advice, but procedural help).
- Child Support Program: Oregon's Division of Child Support can help establish, enforce, or modify child support orders at justice.oregon.gov/dcs.
Remember: Family law cases are emotionally charged, but Oregon provides resources to help you navigate the system. Whether you represent yourself or hire a lawyer, understanding the process empowers you to make informed decisions for your family's future.